📮GUSSA KHATAM KARNE KA NABWI TAREEQA

🍂🍃Bismillahhirrahmanirrahim🍃🍂

🔴Gussa ek Shaytani waswasa hai aur ye waswasa kabi kabi insan se bahut kuch chhin leta hai. Aur itna kuch bigad jata hai ke use fir se sawaara ni ja sakta. Isliye hamare islam ne Gusse ko Qabu karna sikhaya hai.

HADEES

1.SHAYTAAN SE ALLAH KI PANAAH MANGNA

✔☘Mahfum-e-Hadees:
Syedna Sulaiman Bin Surrad (RaziAllahu Anhu) Farmate Hai Ke,
Mai Rasool’Allah (ﷺ)   Ki Khidmat Me Baitha Hua Tha
Aur(Qarib hi) 2 Aadmi Gaali-Galoch Kar Rahe The ,..
Unme Se Ek Ka Muuh Surkh (Laal) Aur Gardan Ki Ragein(veins) Phul Gae Thi ,..
Rasool’Allah (ﷺ) Ne Farmaya:”Mujhe Ek Aisa Kalima Maloom Hai! Ke Agar Ye Shakhs Usey Padh Ley To Uska Gussa Jata Rahega!!
Yaani Agar Ye – “Auzu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajim” Padle (To Iska Gussa Jata Rahega)
📚(Sahih Bukhari, Al-Adaab 6115)

2.GUSSA AJANE PAR LET JANA

✔☘ Rasool’Allah (ﷺ) ne farmaya agar tumme se kisi ko gussa ata hai aur wo khada hai to wo baith jaaye, to uska gussa chala jayega, agar gussa ni jata hai to wo let jaaye.
📚Musnad Ahmad, 5/152; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 694)

3.GUSSA AJANE PAR KHAMOSHI IKHTIYAR KAR LENA

✔☘Rasool’Allah (ﷺ) ne farmaya “agar tumme se kisi ko gussa ata hai to wo khamoshi ikhteyar kar le”
📚(Reported by Imaam Ahmad, al-Musnad, 1/329; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 693, 4027)

🔴Khamoshi isliye Kyunki ye aksar dekha jata hai ke gusse me insan apna aapa kho baithta hai aur kufriya alfaz ya lanat malamat karne lagta hai, ya fir talaq ka lafz istemal krne lagta hai jo ke uska ghar barbad kar dete hai. Aur bure alfaz apas me ek dusre ke dilo me nafrat paida karte hai, jisse ke hamare rishte tutne ka khatra ban jata hai jo ke sarasar galat hai. To gussa ajaane par khamoshi ikhteyar kar lena hi kisi baat ko khatam karne ka sabse behtar tareeqa hai.

4.RASOOL’ ALLAH (ﷺ) KI NASIHAT

✔☘Abu Hurairah Radi allahu anhu riwayat karte hain ke Ek shaks ne Rasool’Allah (ﷺ) se arz kiya k ap mujhe koi nasihat farma dijiye. Aap  (ﷺ) ne farmaya ke gussa na hua kar. Unhone kai martaba ye sawal kiya aur Aap (ﷺ) ne farmaya ke gussa na hua kar.
📚Sahih Bukhari, 6116

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